Real Imperfect MOM

When are you planning babies? This is one of the most common question that every married couple has to answer. And most of us casually reply with a fake smile "SOON". But are you really ready to be parents, or its the social pressure that's forcing you to become parents. Lets check out are YOU really ready for becoming a responsible parent. Here are some of the direct questions I would want you to answer to yourself before taking a step towards one of the biggest responsibility... and that too for lifetime. - ACTUALLY WANT A BABY Do u really want to have a baby or its because of the some underlying reason like loneliness, boredom, age factor, family pressure,or any other. As wanting a baby to get over any disturbing factor will not solve the underlying problem. Infact it puts an unknowing pressure on the baby to help you overcome your problem. Have baby only for the reason of WANTING TO HAVE A BABY. - MUTUAL DECISION Becoming parents is one of the biggest deci

Being a full time mom isn't an easy job. Most of the mothers are usually tired doing their office work, cooking, laundry, cleaning, and most importantly taking care of their little tots. There is hardly any room left for doing something that helps them reliving stress or getting enough rest to ensure stable emotional, physical and metal health. I was going through this same phase, I had no house help, husband had his office and my lil one was 14 months old which means needed full time attention as well as assistance. I could barely get time for even taking a shower or for that sake visiting loo. I was super tired and exhausted. I just had night times where I could do what I would want to, but at the day end I was tired enough to do nothing but to just hit my bed. But if my luck wasn't good enough, even during night times my lil one would give me company and help me be active even till early morning. I just dint know how to manage all this. Initially, things dint mat

It does sound weird that you have already conceived mentally but not physically. Every women surely thinks about conceiving, embracing motherhood and how perfect mother she would turn out to be. All these thoughts are in your mind even before conceiving physically. But is physically conceiving same as mentally conceiving??? Lets see. There are certain things which you always expect when you think of motherhood irrespective that you are pregnant or planning to conceive: - Conceiving Naturally - Smooth sailing pregnancy - Eating healthy and nutritious foods - Exercising regularly - Ensuring to maintain sound mental and spiritual health - Easy child birth  Not to be pessimistic but physically conceiving is way different from conceiving mentally. Some of the below reasons play major role in making your boring pregnancy a roller coaster ride. -  HORMONES They are the real culprit. They control your emotions, physical wellness, your mental health. Your normal behavior

Motherhood!!! What do I say, it came to me when I least expected it. I wanted to embrace motherhood since long but when it actually came I realised I had never thought it could be a full time job with lots of responsibility, selflessness, sacrifice, smiles, sorrows, tears, happiness, and what no. Motherhood is filled with all emotions possible. Over the period of one year of motherhood I realised that every mother is different from other. Infact the way I parent my baby is different from the way my own mother parented me. But that doesn't make me more incorrect or my mother more correct. On giving a deep thought over it, i understood that as every kid is different every mother has to be different as two situations cannot be handled in same way even two kids cannot be handled in same way. I started believing more in the way I bought up my baby,  till now I always doubted them as people around me always had some different opinions. But their opinions came from their experiences which